I'm reading a very nice book of David Meister "True professionalism" - a set of essays on a variety of topics every professional (non necessary a consultant, as David targets its primary book's audience) meets on his way. Full of the practical wisdom this book is an amazing night-table reading, which ideas inspire you and cement a foundation of your belief.
Yesterday I read the essay "No regrets" where David advises us on building a career path. The gist of the idea is: don't be amorphous, know what you love, deal with what you want, and act with passion. He warns us of choosing our job based on the things that may be in demand but against your inclinations. "Do whatever you enjoy. Don't choose something you don't enjoy just because you think it's what we [partners] want" - the advice he got from one of his elder statement at the dawn of his career. I wrote about a very similar approach in one of my previous blogs and it seems the idea is the pledge of successful and surefooted career building. We should fuel our engines of passion and excitement by gasoline they like so in a case we straggle from a course to the big target the "mechanisms" are not depreciated and ready to be re-fueled to go for a new voyage. David points out that passion is only the relevant "skill" that makes one a pro and exhibits drive and determination. "Don't worry about what you're good at… What you like is critical".
I found the next chapter is particularly echoing with some of my previous ideas:
- What do you want to do next?
- Where would you like to be in three years from now?
- What kind of clients would you like to have in three years?
- What kind of work would you like to be doing in three years?
- What next career challenge would you find most exciting?
These questions are addressed to you and your professional satisfaction. They're not about your company. "Many professionals are too busy worrying about their firm's performance criteria to figure out what success really means to them" - another great reveal of the truth from David cautioning us about focusing on our own agenda, target, and path.
David gives a piece of advice on how to find the things we like:
- List all your previous assignments of the last three years and then question yourself on what of them did you most enjoy working?
- Find people you'd love to work with. We'll be happier if we like and respect the people we're doing business with. "For what do I want to be admired and by whom?"
- Clearly identify your evil secrets. Complete the sentence "I don't like to admit, but I…" (am an intellectual snob; don't like dealing with other people; really want to be reach). "Play to your evil secrets. Don't suppress them. You're a lot less flexible than you think" - sums up David.
- Recognize that your planned horizons are moving. "Few career choices are forever. Careers are built by moving from one challenge to the next." We outgrow ourselves and hence have to re-tune and re-focus our dreams every now and then. I call it "dream strategically and plan tactically". Here I'm in unison with David: "Don’t try to plan too far ahead. In 5 to 10 years you'll be a different person who wants different things form life".
- Don't blindly follow the advice of others. Nobody can tell you what you want in your career. "It's always a good idea to solicit outside opinions, in order to expand the range of alternatives to be considered. But you don't have to accept other people's ideas and conclusions, even if what you hear has a common theme".
David attracts our attention to an order of things people typically build their plans. They choose a profession, then a firm, and then a role they want to play. He thinks it's a wrong order. The role must prevail in the subsequence. The role you play is a trump of success and happiness of your career. "Figure our which role you want to play, and then (if necessary) tell your firm about your decision. If they don't t accept it, change firms. Don't sell: buy!"
Again and again David emphasizes the fact that ownership of our career, success, and happiness is solely ours. "You should be a lot picker than they [bosses] in deciding what you're going to do" - repeats David, "Don't sell: Buy!… Nothing is more impressive than someone who clearly knows what he or she loves, and why."
And here is the paragraph I'd like every pro has to make his motto and hang in a frame on a wall in his room: "You can either buy yourself a career, or be bought by one. Don't sell: Buy!"
It's an amazing book, written on very concise and clear English, and bringing tons of wise thoughts letting us to re-think our situation, our vision, and ourselves. I also highly recommend to browse David's site, read his articles and blogs, and listen to his podcasts.
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